Random post 1: What's True/Best Friends?
True/Best friends. A term tt we often used/see in secondary schools, whn u haf ur own gang of friends n whn u sign those autograph books n u r asked 2 write down d names of ur "true"/"best" friends. I had a childhood friend since i was in kindergarten. Actually got a few childhood friends tt was in d same kindergarten, primary n secondary sch as me. Till now we still keep in contact, ONLI one. She stays in d same BLK as me, till nw she still does. I dunno how our Mums gt 2 know each other but what i know is, we end up playing together whn we r still in kindergarten. She will often come 2 my house n play Barbie dolls (wad else?) n also some pretend pretend play. We wud go downstairs n ride bicyles with our maids n my brother. It was years n years of fun. My mum took care of her for a period of time cuz her parents was busy workin n could nt take care of her. She wud often be in my house n everyday, playing n doing crazy stuffs. Dressing up, irritating my brother n stuffs. My parents wud bring her out too whnever my parents wan 2 bring us out 4 shopping. My parents at tt time, wud bring us to Toys'r'us twice a yr 4 us 2 choose wadever toys we want n wud get it 4 us. We took lots of photos too. All d poses i still can remember. Haha. Those were d childhood yrs.
Then, primary sch came. I was posted 2 Xingnan Primary but she went 2 Boon Lay Garden. d times for us 2 play becomes shorter cuz i know lots of other friends there. My kindergarten friends were there also. We did not reali keep in contact thruout d primary sch yrs but there r still times where we will meet downstairs n play together. Tt was lower primary.
Upper primary came, LESSER time cuz i haf a gang of 4 friends who often do things together. Vain time came n basically hanging out wif my own classmates. We were so close tt time. Tt was d time whn i haf my first BF n stuffs. Tts whn i start 2 b a bad bad girl also. Haha.
Secondary school time came, chose Juying Sec cuz most of my primary sch khakis chose tt sch. Coincidentally, she was in tt sch also! Diff class thou. Was so excited 2 see her. Tts whn we start gg back 2 d times whn we r so close. We start 2 go home together, gossip together n stuffs. I was a bad girl during sec sch times. We had a gang of 6-7 girls, combination of my class n her class. We wud always hang out together n go out together. Conflicts came n sm left d grp. But both of us r still in d grp. It was till sec 4 or 5 whn things change. I had a few other BFs b4 my 3-yr one came. She too, haf a BF tt lasted abt 2 yrs plus. Last time MIRC was popular n everyone wud b chatting there n i even haf my own channel which is onli 4 my own friends. Misunderstandings came n everything turns sour. Esp between me n her. It was her BF. She spent too much effort n tears for her BF n rejecting my every help or accompany or even shopping juz 4 d BF. She was a timid GF. Once, He said smthing n causes smone 2 accused me of smthing. I was so angry tt i confronted those ppl. She defended her BF n i was pissed off. How cud she b like tt? Defend her BF whn it was her BF who started it? I finally found evidence n she haf NTH 2 say. Everything frm then on was bad... more misunderstandings n in d end, both of us end up.... not being friends anymore.
Sec sch past by n both of our lives changed. It was no longer those naive times. There r a few times where i saw her. Smiled n say hi but all she do is 2 gif those kind of cold shoulder response. Not onli 2 me, but 2 her classmates too. She wud avoid them whnever she sees them. Weird. I got too tired of saying hi in return of tis kind of response. She was no longer d girl i used 2 know. I cherished those times during our childhood yrs. So many of our friends say its such a waste tt we knew each other 4 so long to end up like tt. I didnt wan to also. She decide 2 gif me cold shoulder n since i was d kind, (u gif me shoulder, FINE, wun smile or say hi to u again), it became worse. Now, both of us r juz friends whn we r young but turn into strangers whn we grow up.